Everyone of us is unique in his or her own way. Everyone is special, has a remarkable influence & indispensable existence. Individualism, personal space, independence & privacy are sort of "sacred rights" for each one of us. The pursuit of achieving one's goals & aims in life is dearly protected & respectfully guaranteed.
Being one of your type, gives you actually a sense of appreciation to you. You should always feel the pleasure of being you. Satisfaction, self-confidence, contentment & ambition are success keys you can use to love your life without underestimating yourself, looking down at what you possess, no comparison whatsoever will creep to your mind & starts inject the bitterness into your heart that so-and-so is better than yourself.
Now, celebrating being you does not in anyway mean selfishness! Yes, sure. When you are convinced with your abilities & capabilities, when you have the intention & the will to always develop & progress, when you know deep inside that there's always a room for improvement; you will really become a source of pleasure, inspiration, optimism & encouragement to all those around you & anyone who would be blessed to be in your company.
I started by emphasizing on the importance of you in your life, because if you don't believe in yourself, how are you going to benefit & serve others!
We -human beings- are social creatures. We can't live isolated & secluded from our fellow human beings. Though, sometimes you need some time to be alone to reassess your life, but this particular important thing doesn't consume the whole time; it's just a portion of it, done from time to time.
Regarding this important fact, we are interacting with all types of people all the time. Some of them are a source of relief while others are mere source of irritation. No matter what do you feel towards others, you have to deal with them through respect, it should be the only language you speak, for two major reasons: One springs from your self-respect, & the other because Allah honored the human being when He created him, if he on the other hand wants to dishonor himself it's his own problem, he should decide how it goes!
So, adopting the following two principles that I deeply believe in, will be the major points I'll build my opinions on. "Sharing is Caring" & "The Law of Abundance: There's enough for everyone".
Binding these two "basis" together, I can confidently say that: One can grow more in sharing what one has, whether material possessions or intellectual properties! It's even scientifically proven that the best way to acquire more knowledge & keep what you have already learned strongly planted in your memory & easily accessible when you need to recall it, is by teaching it to others.
Likewise, giving charity & spending from your extra money to help less fortunate, will give you a feeling deep inside that is indescribable. At the first glance from the outside, it seems that you are losing money, but in reality, the little you give will reflect on the rest the you left for your own use; I guarantee you that you will enjoy every single penny you spend, none of it will be wasted in vain & you will still have an amount left for you that you never used to have even with the most powerful plans in saving & managing your budget.
Having said so, I want to "share" with you the pleasure of teaching something to someone, whether they asked you to, or you voluntarily did it; When they understand what you have just explained to them, the glow in their eyes & the relief that covers their faces, give you a joy that you have never experienced before, ever.
I believe that we can make our world better than any Utopia ever written about. Everyone through their sincere efforts & exceptional contributions. So, we can make our world a better place to be in for us & the others.
All The Best Dear Readers!
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