Usually, colleagues in general & friends in particular, like to gather & TALK. That is what happens in most of cases, rather all the time. Anyhow, I'm not objecting to that at all. I myself do it & actually enjoy it. BUT, what drove me to mention this from the beginning is the topics being discussed in such settings & the talk said in these meeting is the dilemma. Not only that, but also the atmosphere surrounding, the voices coming out & the WAY all this taking place.
If I start with the topics, dear me, I just want to mention for the record that I'm not Miss Know-It-All; I'll never be. It's just a matter of different natures coming together & trying to cope, tolerate, accept & even celebrate those differences.
Since, as far as I know, I'm a human being & never claimed to be anything more or else -actually I don't want to-. Humans have limits, no matter how hard they try to exceed it they can't. By the way I'm not spreading pessimism or frustration, have patience dear reader till I clarify my point, then probably you'll totally agree with me & even start a campaign in supporting my notion.
Back to the reason I started all this writing. Yes, Human Nature, so complicated to put in words, yet so easily understood through behavior. From this exceptional discovery in psychology -that I myself made- you can in the first five minutes of your conversation with someone, decide to happily continue or respectfully end it & withdraw once & for all.
I want to again emphasis that that it's not looking down at people considering them not worthy of your so precious time-- not at all. It's all about soul matching issue. Those same people that you don't ever enjoy being around, have their own circle of friends that they are adored by & joyfully accompanied.
Duh! I feel that I talked a lot about that particular thing-- I really don't know my dear reader what are you going to think about me; I'll leave it up to you!
Please, let me go back again to my main point, that is: gathering & socializing with people. Do we really plan for it?
I'm going to ask a question that may appear weird & odd enough that I almost feel that a very big question mark is popping over your head accompanied with a flashing exclamation mark....
Do we seriously plan for the fun time? Do we really consider how & with whom are we going to spend spare time? Do we soberly think about so-called leisure time in what & to what it's being dedicated? After all, no matter what name it's given, it's still minutes of our precious dear life that we have it for once.
This in no way means or even suggests that you omit fun from your life or abandon
your favorite hobbies; not at all, it's just a call to use it wisely & know about every single minute where & how it was spent. The way you keep record of your money. As they say: Time is money! To me it's much more valuable than money.
Dear reader, regarding all the the "facts" I humbly presented to you; I do really recommend that you "cherry pick" your friends & finely select your close circle. This is not selfishness, it's only a way to grow & help others in this too.
Avoid those who only talk with little deeds if any. Stay away from pessimist, time wasting type of people; who, in the best of cases, picture life as a dark, hopeless & miserable place to be in.
After all, you are the "Commander in Chief" of your life. no one can force you to do or abstain from anything you want to.
These were my thoughts I wanted to share with you. Hope you will benefit respected reader.
Till next time, all the best!
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